
23 Mar The Power of People – Tying it All Together
We’ve walked through the battlefield of relationships — Adders, Subtractors, Multipliers, and Dividers.
Each one plays a role in your story. But now it’s time to stop observing and start executing.
This isn’t just about knowing who’s who.
It’s about taking control of your life, starting with your circle.
Because if your environment is toxic, your growth is limited.
And if your circle is weak, your vision dies.
🔥 The Power of Your Circle
Let’s be real. Most people don’t fail because they lack talent or hustle.
They fail because they’re surrounded by Subtractors and Dividers—
people who drain their energy, poison their mindset, or pull them off course.
Your circle can be your launchpad or your lifelong trap.
You already know the types:
- Adders – They pour into you, but not everyone who adds should stay forever.
- Subtractors – They chip away at your energy and joy.
- Multipliers – Rare, powerful, and necessary. These are your rocket fuel.
- Dividers – The most dangerous. They pit you against yourself, your goals, your peace.
If you keep giving loyalty to Dividers out of history, or tolerating Subtractors out of guilt, you’re not being kind — you’re being careless with your future.
🔥 This Knowledge Means NOTHING If You Don’t Move On It
It’s not enough to know what people are.
You’ve got to act on it.
“When you tolerate dysfunction, you participate in your own destruction.”
Let that sink in.
You’ve identified the players. Now you need to make moves:
✅ Cut access.
✅ Create distance.
✅ Set standards.
✅ Build your tribe with intention.
This isn’t about being heartless — it’s about being disciplined with your destiny.
Growth is a choice. And every person you allow in your life either waters your roots or poisons your soil.
🔥 The Practical Blueprint to Reshape Your Relationships
If you’re serious about leveling up, here’s how you do it:
1. Audit Your Circle Ruthlessly
Make a list. Ask yourself:
- Do they support my vision or make me second-guess it?
- Do I feel empowered after talking to them or drained?
- Are they pushing me forward or pulling me down?
Be honest. Don’t sugarcoat.
2. Identify and Categorize
Tag each person: Adder, Subtractor, Multiplier, or Divider.
This isn’t to judge — it’s to gain clarity.
3. Cut or Limit Contact With Subtractors and Dividers
No more giving them center stage in your life.
Limit convos. Remove them from your inner circle. If needed, cut ties completely.
4. Strengthen Connections With Adders
Encourage, appreciate, and invest in those who genuinely uplift you.
But be aware — not all Adders are permanent. Some are seasonal.
5. Lock In With Your Multipliers
These people are gold.
They challenge you. They see your vision even when it’s blurry.
Hold them close. Pour into them too. Iron sharpens iron.
6. Become a Multiplier Yourself
You attract what you are. If you want powerful people around you, level up your own game.
Be the one who inspires, uplifts, challenges, and multiplies.
🔥 This Is Bigger Than Just “Friends”
This applies to EVERY relationship in your life:
- Your circle of friends
- Your work crew
- Family
- Romantic partners
- Business collaborators
You don’t owe anyone unlimited access to your life just because they’ve been around.
History doesn’t equal loyalty. Blood doesn’t equal alignment.
Vibes don’t equal value.
🧠 Final Thought: Choose Your Circle or It Will Choose Your Future
This is it.
The last post in this series, but the first step into your next level.
You have every tool you need to evaluate, navigate, and dominate your environment.
Now it’s on you to:
✅ Act.
✅ Restructure.
✅ Protect your peace.
✅ Chase your calling without dead weight slowing you down.
Because the only way to fly is to drop the baggage.
So, ask yourself:
🔥 Who am I still holding onto that God, growth, or the grind already told me to let go of?
🔥 What am I tolerating that’s costing me the future I say I want?
🔥 And most importantly — when will I finally put myself first?
Let this be the moment.
Not next week. Not next month.
Now.
🚀 You’re Not Meant to Just Survive — You’re Built to Soar
Take back your power.
Curate your circle.
Be bold enough to let go — and wise enough to build forward.
Because your life will only rise to the level of the people you allow into it.
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